Wednesday, July 18, 2007
I appreciate so much your concern, anyone who commented or who sent me a prayer or two...! Things are still bad, and I'm trying to tell myself it isn't the end of the world. It isn't, of course, and there are many worse things, but---As far as "medium-bad" things go, this is right up there. I don't even have the strength to take pictures and post them, but I will when we're closer to an "after" photo. Basically, we discovered - as we were peeling the five/six layers of wallpaper in the living room - that one whole wall is badly damaged from a water leak (from before the roof was replaced), and many areas that haven't flat-out crumbled have soft plaster, plaster that feels ready to give at any moment. We have gone back and forth about what to do, and how, and finally decided to try ourselves today to start breaking it down---. Ugh. I don't even want to think about it. What we realized is that we need a professional's help on this, so we're going to try tomorrow to find someone. We're going to scrape, prime and paint the other walls, which are decent, and then just wait for help. It's hard to admit defeat like this, but the cycle of despair and stress Adam and I are both in is almost too much to bear. We've cried Uncle for tonight, and I'm going to enjoy a drink on the couch that we moved into the porch. It's beautiful outside, so there's that. And there's a new, fresh day tomorrow --- I am so grateful for those new starts we are constantly given.
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How completely frustrating. I hope you're able to find someone to help you out soon.
geesh, that sucks and i am feeling really sorry for you. but...dang, that last line is the best one i've read in days. thanks for the good reminder.
I will not even think about saying "Welcome to owning a home", because I've wanted to whap people in the head when they've said it me. That just sucks, plain and simple. However, you guys will go through the phases of it, and there are plenty of people (at different costs) that can help. If you are unsure, continue to ask. I am thinking of you.
I agree with Jessie-what a great reminder. You are so good at that.
there is a new fresh day tomorrow ... i wish i was as calm and rational as you are being ~ i freak out in such a bad way over this kind of stuff, which is silly in the end because its all fixable :) thank you for your wisdom :)
sorry this happened but i know your wall will be wonderful in the end, wonderful and new ... xox
This does not sound fun, and that you have been able to roll with it - bravo. But these situations are so, so defeating. We had that in the Falls, when we took up the bathroom carpet and found the entire -ENTIRE- floor around the toilet was rotted out - and I can guarantee you it was NOT from water! But those fresh starts, the opportunity to look at it tomorrow, to dig in, to make progress - and even better, see it done!!! That will truly feel like a proud victory!
Oh dear, that's awful Laura. I can imagine how completely overwhelming that discovery must have been. Hugs to you during this stressful time.
Hang in there bud.
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